Fear Of Sex

Sex Problems for Women

Hi I'm a 28 year old girl who was molested by my grandfather when I was young, that is all behind me now but I can't seem to even WANT to have sex, I shy away from the thought of it and I don't even like my female friends of 16 years hugging me even though there is nothing sexual about it.
I guess my question is how can I get comfortabe enough to do it as sometimes I do want to?
Blow jobs are just out of the question!
What do I do?

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help for your fear

darling have you been to see a therapist? It is incredialbly common for people such as you to hate and fear sex, for you it is something wrong, dirty and indeed painful. However it can be fixed. What you need is time to heal and help doing it.
There are people out there to help, a lot of them are free, my suggestion reach out! {{{HUGS}}}} Happiness