I have been dating my boyfriend for seven years since we were in high school. He became friends with one of his boss's six years ago and the guy happens to be 30 years older than him and is gay. I know for a fact that the gay man is in love with my boyfriend but my boyfriend tells me over and over again that he is not gay and that all the guy is is a friend to him. I have found out that he talks to him on the phone after I call him when I get home at about 1 o'clock in the morning. I have also found him over his house but he says that he just stops by. The gay guy sends him things saying how much he loves him and that he can't live without him. I have found recently that my boyfriend has been sending him pictures of himself, I am unsure if they are naked pictures or not. I don't have any friends to talk to and my biggest fear is that either he is gonna to leave me or that I am gonna keep letting this go on.
What should I do? Do I confront him or follow him and catch him in a lie. Please help because I am so lost and I love him so much I am afraid that if I tell him not to talk to him anymore or that I make him choose me or his gay friend that he will break up with me and choose him.

Hello,

I have been married for 15 years and just recently my husband had to go away for a few weeks and now since he has been back he has been going limp during sex. I know my husband loves to watch porn and often masturbates this has never been a prob for us before. Any clues as to why this is happening??

Im a male in 40's; long term girlfriend in 30's

During after being lovers for six month, she found out she had HIV. I loved her and wanted to stay with her no matter what. So I did. she battled her way through chemotherapy for AIDS bone cancer. During that time we still had a great sex life and were very close, even though she was so ill and as bald as a billiard ball. I moved in with her.
We then seemed to bicker a lot about small things, but after we found a way through - say about having a room we both liked - then we would be happy with the result.
Then even though I was earning a pile of money as a freelance consultant, she started getting very stressed. She was used to never having to find work (she was a nurse) This led to loads of arguements about money. To please her, I went for a permanent position, the dot com crash happened and I had to go back to freelancing.
She filled her time with studies

Then out of the blue about 3 years ago she started getting neurological symptoms, having previously been pretty fit and healthy. Within a few months it turned out she had a HIV related brain illness and within another couple of months was brain damaged with loss of vision (hemiopnia) and left sided hemipareisis, so she now needs 24 hour care. She is mobile under total supervision around the house.

Hi, I 've been with my partner for a year now and everything was nice until a couple of months ago . He started to avoid having sex with me he always said that he was tired even started to make excuses like this one time he said he felt dizzy the next morning because we had sex the night before .BUt recently he told me that the reason he acting that way is because he feel unattractive . What can I do , what can I say to him to help him with this problem?

Ok I have been dating this guy for almost 8 months now, and I really do love him. But I have a major problem with his ex. I cant stand her. Recently my boyfriend's dad got of jail and he told his ex when he was getting out and now she wants to go see him. Even though they were supposely close I really dont think there's a point in her going to see him. I've waited almost 8 months to meet this guy and get to know him so he can like me, but I feel like she is trying to get in the way. I think she is just trying to find a way to stay in my boyfriend's life. And I just think its only fair for her to move on from everything and let me get to know him...after all I am the one dating his son..right!? Certain people think I'm making a huge deal about this but then others think I am completely right and that she doesnt need to. Help me please! Am I really making a big deal..what can I do to keep this from bothering me!???

yesterday I lost my virginity to a man that I dont know. Well I know him but I dont know enough about him to say that my experience was worth while. I hated every minute of it. I feel dirty, I dont have an appetite, I want to be alone all of the time and the thought of sex makes me sick. I wish I could erase everything. If I could turn back the hands of time I would do in a heartbeat! At times I wish I would just die, I hate myself now. I dont know what to do? I have no one to talk to? I wish I could climb under a rock and disappear. I dont know whats going on with me. I cry at the craziest times and I want all of this to stop. I know what I did was wrong, unsafe and stupid. Not to mention, when i told this man to stop he continued to go faster and harder. My entire bed was filled with blood, and I am still bleeding. I dont know what to do, whom to tell. I just know I hate feeling like this. I want this to go away. I wish I could runaway. If I knew how to get over this and more on with my life that I would, but I can't. I get sick just thinking about that night. I even get sick when I look at the opposite sex...

can someone please help me,
A cry out for help

My period came 4 days early and then when it stayed on for a week. Now there is a light pinkish color which has been on for like 3 days. What can I do to stop this because I really do want to have sex? Please help!!

Me and my b/f of about a year just broke up in the beginning of july because I was kinda a bitch to him, I threw beer all over him when we were out at a bar in front of all his friends. We haven’t talked the whole month till now. He wants to get back with me but I found out that he was having sex with this girl who now just moved in with his best friend. I don’t know how I will be able to get over this because he is still always going to be at his best friends house, but that girl now is always going to be there now to because she just moved in as the roommate. My b/f says he dosen’t like her and he only loves me it was just sex and he is friends with this girl who I also know but now do not like. Should I not get back with him at all or try to give us another chance. Please help.

Thanks

Hey i have been dating this girl for 3 years now. We uses to have sex 3-4 times a day.But now we are down to 1 or times a week.Now she only once to snuggle. Me being a guy i want sex all the time. She doesnt even want to have oral stuff any more either
thanks for your help

hi...really confused coz the fist time my bf penetrated me fully, there was no bleeding...he was my first and i never had any sexual encounter with any other man before him nor do i masturbate...he uses the basis that bleeding occurs when a woman is still a virgin...unfortunately, he didnt see any sign of blood...and now he is having doubts...im being true to him but he is having doubts...why is this? prior to that incident, weve been getting more and more intimate...but no complete penetration yet...was it because maybe he was just too gentle or maybe weve been slowly breaking my hymen as weve progressed and just didnt know he broke into me already??? really confused...='(