I'm sure that other women have this problem so I'm not crazy, but I have always been quite sensitive to the point where I find sexual touch very ticklish and hard to endure. I have tried to explain this to my husband, who doesn't seem to take any notice and keeps touching me in a way that I can't help but react to in a way that makes him feel rejected. I have felt even more sensitive since having a baby 4 years ago and have had hardly any sex drive or desire to have sex. This is a huge problem for my husband and but every time I try to talk to him about it he clams up and gets all defensive and is not showing any understanding about it. I am wondering if it is a physical problem that I can do something about by taking herbal medicines or even something pre-scribed by my doctor, or is this something I cannot change about my body and my husband just has to accept and deal with?

Hi, I am a 22 year old male and cannot cum during oral or vaginal sex. I have just recently lost my virginity.

Embarassingly, from the age of 6 to about 18 I would hump the floor without an erection and orgasm that way. That is correct, I actually had orgasms at the age of 6. I did not start ejaculating until probably around my teenage years however.

When I was in my early teens, I learned that masturbation was not to be done with a floor, but with your hand, and I attempted to convert. However, despite trying with my hand for a while, perhaps a week or two, I could not orgasm. Maintaining an erection while masturbating was easy however. I soon gave up as traditional masturbation was not pleasurable. I then went back to humping the floor while limp, without an erection.

From time to time I would try to orgasm through hand masturabation, but it would never work, and I would revert back to the floor. I still had frequent erections, probably as often as any other teenage male.

When I turned 18, I decided that this had to stop and that I had to masturbate with my hand. I forced myself to masturbate with my hand for several weeks without ever getting off. I finally started to cum, but masturbation with my hand was much less pleasurable than with the floor. It would also take alot of time for me to get off with my hand, and I'd often need some sort of lotion to make it happen. Despite this, I would not masturbate with the floor, I would continue to use my hand.

Hello, Im a male and I have a reoccurring problem. It is basically that i get to know women, fall for them and get really excited and happy for about the first 1-2 months of dating. Then i feel like they are getting on my nerves, like seeing the same woman each time and getting so used to their personality that it almost starts irritating you because you find all the imperfections in it. Now i really don't know what's wrong with me... is it commitment issues or I don't even know what. I also feel like i get bored in relationships and I can never be fully satisfied. I always wonder what my friends think of her and if they approve and how she is making me look amongst friends and in public.

If you can help me it will be much appreciated

thanks.

I had a girlfriend who broke my heart 4 years ago, during this time i met and fell for another girl, she fell for me even more so. We went out for a year, it was amazing but I was afraid of being hurt again and pushed her away, she eventually met sombody else and in my jealousy and anger i pushed her away completly eg quit our place of work, deleted number, refused to speak to her totally.

2 quick years passed as she moved in with her new boyfriend. I was applying for a job at a new place and when i went on my interview day she was there having an interview aswell.. you can call it fate perhaps but we both got the job. I hadnt seen her in 2 years and i thought it would be awkward but it was anything but, we got on even better. We flirted to the extent that managers had to have words with us. She then started to tell me she's falling for me again and thinks she's in love with me but confused as she also loves her boyfriend. She told me if she broke up with her boyfriend she would jump at the chance to be with me.

A year passed with us constantly flirting together and being so close however she couldnt leave her boyfriend. She quit our workplace to get another job, 2 weeks after i quit also. Then a week later her boyfriend said he doesnt love her anymore and finished with her, she was so heartbroken and i was the only one there for her. I didnt want to take advantage as i truly cared for her and i didnt want tobe a rebound so i kept my distance while trying to support and get her through it.

I have been in a relationship for almost four years now. Me and my boyfriend have been living together for three years in August. We moved in together after he graduated from high school. Things have been good in our relationship. For being so young, we have had a pretty good 3 years. We never had to ask anyone for help, as we make out on our own just fine. Before we got an apartment together, I was living with an older woman, watching her kids nonstop and never had my own things, so moving into my own home was a big change. I have never really had a stable home, because my mother is basically irresponsible, and I never met my father.

So, right now, I feel really comfortable. I have never been more stable, as far as having a roof over my head and having what I need. However, here's the problem. About a year and a half ago, me and my boyfriend would argue nonstop. It would even get physical. I would provoke him by pushing him around and and getting in his face, and then he would put his hands on me for revenge and so forth. We were basically a mess. After we started doing that, I was embarrassed to even go outside sometimes, afraid that my neighbors could hear us. I'm starting to get over it though. It wasn't that bad, the yelling was the worst. I wouldn't put him or I in the category of being "physically abusive", because we are not that type.

I have recently been diagnosed as suffering from post coital cephalgia and i have a few questions as the doctors didn't really have many answers for me.

I am a reasonably fit and active 27 year old male. Apx a week ago i had intercourse and at the point of ejaculation i had a very sudden and severe headache that hit me in the back of the head like a hammer. The headache was excruciating and lasted for apx four hours. I could feel every pulse surge through the back of my head and at first i thought it might be a migraine. I do not usually suffer headaches/migraines.

I tried everything i could think of to lower the pain. I immediately took ibuprofen and medocodene but this did not seem to do a great deal for me. I tried freezing water on the back of my head and i tried darkness e.t.c. but nothing seemed to help.

Over the next four days i began to worry about how the headache came on and the severity of the pain. I eventually decided i needed to know if it was brought on by orgasm/ejaculation or if it was a one off.

So i reluctantly masturbated when i was on my own hoping it would not re-occur. To my distress it hit me again at exactly the same point and i felt a feeling of dread wash over me. But this time the pain was so severe that it had me in tears and i was shaking and sweating and could not lay/sit still.

My husband is only 24 years old and I have noticed for some time that when he ejaculates it is such a small amount and only dribbles out rather than spurts out like it should. I am worried that he is not enjoying sex as much as he should.

I have no problem getting hard but I am in a new relationship and every time we have tried to have sex I have lost my erection just before penetration. I am too young to be having problems with this. Is there anything I can do without medication or is there any common reason that would be happening now because it has never happened to me before.

Hey, im in a relationship with my girlfriend, shes the first girl ive had sex with and im experiencing some problems.

I cannot finish with a condom or from oral sex. They both arent very physically satisfying for me, but I also think there is a mental issue in it.

I had been addicted to porn for some years now. Strong fantasy stuff which I think may have desensitized me to a degree. I have since stopped watching pornography, although the temptation still arises from time to time.

Ive tried so many different types of condoms, and they have all failed on me, the only time I can come is when my girlfriend briefly gets on birthcontrol. Which she hates and wont stay on it for more than 2 months at a time.

Orally the things she does should make me finish, I mean, if I was watching pornography of what we where doing, that would be enough for me to satisfy myself.

Masturbation is fine for me, but I think my pornography addiction has somewhat damaged my sexual mind...

The connection during sex can be either animalistic or deep, and the forplay is quite intense

Any advice?

I am 20 and have been with my 20 year old boy friend for 2 years. We are so happy and never argue. We used to go to college together and had the same group of friends, which consisted of mainly boys and me and another girl. we used to go out for a drink each week as a big group, but when we all went to uni this stopped.

We are now in our 2nd year at uni (different uni's) and have not been out with our friends for about 1 1/2 years. we were all supposed to meet up at christmas but it got called off. in the last two days my bf out of the blue said he wanted to start going out more and see friends again. this was fine, until he said he wanted to go out on his own.

I am very protective and we have no secrets, but i dont understand. we used to have the same group of friends and go out in that group, but now he doesnt want me to go out with him as much as i have begged!!

I want to be able to go out as a couple to meet OUR friends, but he wants to go on his own. I cant understand what difference it would make me being there, its not as if i would stop him from being with his friends. Am I over reacting? should i let him go out on his own to see OUR friends, or am i right to want to go along as well?