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Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 30/06/2005 - 08:29. Relationship Problems

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. He has been so in love with me, even his mother and all his friends say so. And yet, being that we met on the internet, I found out that since day 1, he has been cheating on me. He has done it lots of times and I have asked him to stop. It has become so serious and yet he swears that he loves me undyingly and that he is a changed man. But how come it seems he is only changed because he has been around me 24/7 for the past month? I love him and I wanna give him a chance, but I am tired of everytime I am around I find out of his fooling around with other girls. I should be all he has. I give him what no girl on the computer would, so why does he continue to escape from me this way? What hurts me the most is that he lies his ass off until I get proof against him, and then he confesses and cries and hits things and throws stuff until I feel bad and give him another chance. As many as it may be that have probably posed this same question, what should I do?

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Understand

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 15/07/2005 - 19:53.

I understand what you are going through. I have dated some girls online as well and yes i guess I would say it really burnt me. All day thats all I could think of is what she is doing where she is... it was like this for a long time till one day I really just said to myself - forget this online dating, I am going to find someone that I can see and be with. I wouldn't say that people can't change.. they sure can. I use to play girls myself a lot before in my teenage years but now I am totaly changed, I have a gf that i love a lot and we are planning to marry soon.. and I never wants to get with any other women and for once i tell everyone that I am taken. So I guess if he really loves u he might change.. but in a way I kind of doubt it.

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hi. i knwo you love him and i

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 09/07/2005 - 15:26.

hi. i knwo you love him and its hard-but you shouldnt have to put up with this kind of behaviour, you have spoken to it about him and he has seen how upset it makes you. But he still does it, and each time you forgive him and give him another chance, maybe he feels that you will do this all the time.
Try being a bit firmer and saying its his last chance and see how it goes. i know internet relationships are hard, im in one too. but we dont go with other people and trust each other and will soon live together.
for relationships to work you have to trust and respect each other......

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