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Delayed ejaculation

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 29/06/2005 - 19:08. Sex Problems for Men

I am 60 years old and usually have no problem with ejaculation. However, recently I experienced a "lovemaking" session that lasted almost 6 full hours during which I was sexually aroused the entire time and very active in a variety of sexual situations with my partner but never did reach ejaculation. I even had taken a Viagra prior to the session. I do take lipitor and a high blood pressure med but had not taken either of them that day. I do have a larger inguinal hernia and wonder if that is causing some of the problem. Also my partner and I had had several alcoholic drinks prior to and during the six hour period. I feel I failed her as well as myself. How can I prevent such "delayed" ejaculation in the future?

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you definitely

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 09/07/2005 - 09:37.

didn't fail her. having sex for so long is great! sex isn't about goals, or reaching orgasm, its about enjoying your partner and bonding and giving each other pleasure! not everyone will orgasm every time they have sex and not everyone wants to orgasm every time they have sex.

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Delayed Ejaculation

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 10/07/2005 - 18:08.

I am a 58 year old male and I have practiced for many years to try to not ejaculate with my wife so quickly. I have achieved that goal and love not ejaculation for 3, 4, 5, 6 hours during sex or masturbation.
I have studied my own body to try to achieve delayed ejaculation and find many small ejaculations can be achieved without the semen spurting out. Often during sex but mostly during masturbation I can achieve a mini orgasam of one or two or three orgasms pulses of my kegal muscels without achieving the ejaculate. I love that feeling as a small feeling of ejaculation without the semen is present also. The method of such control is best suited for masturbation as I am in complete control then. With sexual coital intercourse my wife sometimes drives the sex activy and I do ejaculate quicker but normally compete her totally before I do. Has anyone reading this achieved such control either with coital sex with a female or with masturbation.

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Found your situation interest

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 13/07/2005 - 00:15.

Found your situation interesting in that my boyfriend's is the opposite. He wants to ejaculate, but often can't. We have to stop for 10 or 15 minutes and then start over 3 or 4 times before he finishes. It takes so long. Sometimes we run out of time. He says he's just happy that I finish. But I feel unsatisfied and that maybe it's something emotional. He says no, and that with other women he was often not even aroused. He says it's normal to sometimes take a few days to replenish. (We are 40-ish.) He also says he can't masturbate, and never ejaculated during oral. Does this sound right to you? I have found books regarding what you've learned to do, and understand the technique completely. Any thoughts on the reverse situation? Thanks much.

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That sounds like me, except..

Submitted by scaredbloke on Sun, 25/11/2007 - 02:18.

I don't seem to be able to stop masturbating. I think that is my problem, that's what stops me cumming. I never had from Oral, I have always gad To "finish" myself.
Also I was circumcised at 25 ish, so I had a foreskin before. do I lose sensitivity?
Any ideas ?

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Good news !!

Submitted by scaredbloke on Mon, 10/12/2007 - 23:34.

Since putting down something in words, I think , I've managed to control my urges. I don't masturbate nearly so much. i'd gotten into such a habit. I wasn't addicted to wanking, I was doing it out of habit. And, because of this, I feel, my erection is better, the amount of times I do now ejaculate has increased, and therefore so has my confidence, which makes everything better, in every way. Like a "reverse viscious circle ".
Just wanted to get that off my chest.
Ta

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