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I love my girlfriend so much and I want her back

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 02/05/2004 - 16:46. Relationship Problems

Hi, my girl of 4yrs has just finished with me. She says we were fighting too much and she wanted time with her mates. I told her I would change and be the same person again that she loved for those 4 yrs.
She wont talk or text me back, I love her so so so much and really would do anything for her, her mum, dad etc and really like me, but her mates have all turned on me, cause they said to me that if I ever wanted to talk just phone them so I did, but everything I told them they told her.

p.s the reason why we had fights most of the time was because one of her mates had to come everywhere with us, and I always said that to her.

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Want her back

Submitted by mpramage on Mon, 03/05/2004 - 10:54.

This girlfriend prefers her mates to you. You were fighting because of that, she says she wants to be with them, she won't talk to you or text you, there's nothing you can do.
It is always sad and hurtful when a relationship ends, and 4 years is quite a while. You just have to feel the sadness and get over it. You can learn from this experience, that fighting is not the best way to sort out a relationship. You need to understand what the fights are about. Also, listening very carefully to what the other person says is the most important thing. Without that you can never know what she means or wants, or what is going on for her.
I am sure you will get over her in time, and meet somebody else who will get the benefit of what you have learned with this one.

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Want her back

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 03/05/2004 - 11:04.

i dont think i can let her go so easy cause we finished on the sunday, but from that mon - sat she was texting me sayin how much she loved me etc, and plus a week before she said " i could never see myself being with someone other than you" and her mum and sister says to me to give her time,

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