My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over nine months. It just started a little while ago, but not I can't get him to come while we're having sex. He says it's not me, but if it was him could he really get himself off too??? I mean, he can cum during sex if he watching a porn, or if he masturbates after sex. He swears that he's still attracted to me and that its because Im not "load enough" but even when I am he cant. Then he said it was because sex became like a routine for us...how can I make it not a routine??? Does he or does he not feel attractied to me anymore? Why can't I make him cum??