Can't have an orgasm with somebody else

Sex Problems for Women

I'm a female and I cant have an orgasm without having my legs closed and my butt and leg muscles contracted. This is kind of a problem because the position I need to be in to achieve an orgasm is rather hard to be in with a male partner. Am I wierd and how do I go around this. I think I am developing a complex because of this.

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No you are not weird. 10% of women do not have orgasms at all, and 35% do not have orgasms with intercourse. Many women find it difficult to orgasm in front of a partner, but with practice and getting used to it you can overcome this. It is a common inhibition.
You do not say if you have orgasms with masturbation or oral sex. If you don't, have you tried? Have you considered doing Sex Therapy
If you have tried and it doesn't make a difference, then the way you are is fine anyway, just a bit limiting, but at least you get an orgasm. Enjoy!