Im 21 years old i've been dating my boyfriend who is 25 for 1.6 years, were in along distance relationship and its so hard im trying to hang in their because i love him to death and i can see a bright future for us. I went through the same issue as you my bf needs money i usually have it but it's starting to put a strain on our relationship, he also claims that im all he's got. I only send him money when i think it's necessary, but him asking for it started to become a habit and when i didnt have it he would get pissed off. I dont know your fiance's situation but my boyfriend lives in lafayette, louisiana and i live in houston, texas he has a good job i just think he manages money poorly he's a flashy guy and he likes expensive things, but he also supports his mother his father died a few years ago and being the oldest son of three boys he took on that responsibilty and i admire that about him but i feel left out because he doesnt take care of me. Now back your situation you shouldnt have to make an excuse just talk to him this is your fiance think of it like this are you really ready to get married not being financial stable, think of ways to help him budget his money, just be there to support him.

You've got to tell him no, That you ain't got it to give, and he should be providing for you anyway. Tell him to get off his lazy ass and get a job.