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Sex Problems for Women

I've been with this guy for more then 4 years. At the start of our relationship our sex life was "ok" I have a low sex drive (1 to 3 times a week at the most) anyhow, he is very hardheaded and often we've talked about "sex".
Last week I was on a business trip for 6 days. During that time, I never had a minute for my self. I was either in a plane, in a meeting or sleeping a 4-5 hour night. When I got home, all I really wanted was to relax. He got so mad at me because I didn't want to have sex the minute I walked in. I explained that I was just really tired, that was all.
He then said that all normal people should want that first thing when they get home. All that to say that my sex drive is getting worse by the minute every time he says something like that to me. I feel angry and hurt and disgusted every time he touchs me. I even want to cry. What's wrong with me?

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Nothing wrong with you!

Actually there is nothing wrong with either of you! He's ok and you are ok. You just disagree and each wants to be right! If one person is right then the other has to be wrong. You need to talk and help him to explain why he thinks it is normal to want sex when you are tired, short of sleep and possibly jetlagged, as most people just want to rest in those circumstances. Under pressure a sex drive disappears. That too is normal.