Help Second Marriage going wrong already!

Relationship Problems

Hi, I really need some advice. I am 28 years old and believe it not am on my second marriage. My first marriage was a complete mistake, and my husband was cheating on me. I left him and we divorced. I met my current husband a year later, and he was so loving and special to me - when he asked me to marry him, I didn't think twice about it. We had a huge wedding last year - and have been married for 10 months, however over the last few months, I am finding that he no longer makes me feel passionate. He is very set in his ways, and although I'm not nieve enough to think it will always be hearts and roses, he's struggling to even kiss me like a wife. He has so many hobbies, and is very close to his mum who he rings every day. However the only time he rings me is to ask what time i'm home so he knows when to feed our dog or not. I really do feel second best to this man, and although I have confronted him and he's told me that i'm being stupid, he's yet to do something to show me that I come first in his life. It's got to the point now where I am going out with friends and if a Man pays me any attention at all, I am extremely tempted to take their number, because I suddenly feel so special and wanted again. I haven't had an affair and don't want it to end this way, however I feel that if things don't change this is where it will end up. I'm so desperate to make this work, and don't want to have label attached to me about getting divorced twice before I'm even 30 - however I'm feeling really unhappy at the moment and can't imagine the rest of my life being like this.....