sucking the life out of me

Relationship Problems

My (ex?)girlfriend and I have been on a break for a few months now. The break was my idea because I felt as though she did not care for me as much as she used to. She claims she still does and always did, but I keep finding things to get mad about. She claims that she loves me and that she is doing everything she can to try and make things work, but I feel like I am easy to please and that she is just not trying. I get very frustraited because I include her in everything I do that I know that she would like to be a part of, but she never seems to include me in anything good at all, she will only call me for movie nights or for dinner(just us).
At this point she is friends with every single one of my friends but I have not made a single friend through her. It is also true that she seems quiet and reserved around me but friendly and full of life around others. Since the break she has not been coming on to me sexually at all and she seems to give me less and less consideration. I am just wondering if I am wasting my time thinking about getting back with her or if we should just part ways, because I still love her but feel as though she is sucking the life out of me.

what should I do?

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im going through the same thing

hey im going through the same thing but it is with my husband i know how you feel and today we have decided to go our seperate ways and it is hard because we have a 10month old daughter it breaks my heart to see him go but you and i cant live like that any more!!!

xxxxx