i'm 22 years old and a virgin, so i'm absolutely positive my bleeding has nothing to do with a pregnancy. however, every time i have an orgasm (through oral sex or masturbation), i tend to spot (sometimes heavily depending on the strength of the orgasm). is this ok or is it something i should get checked out? i also occasionally pass small pieces of a body-tissue-like substance during menstruation, but when i went to the gyno he told me it was nothing to worry about. however, due to abuse as a child, i am terrified of anyone (including myself) inserting anything into my vagina, and therefore have never had any tests run on me at all or check ups of any nature. does anyone have any advice for me at all? any similar stories and what your doctors might have told you? anything will help. thanks!