Something to worry about?

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I have a new guy friend, he is in his mid thirties, not currently dating. We talk only as friends, he's never crossed a line. My concern is he has told a mutual male friends of ours,that he thinks of me sexually all the time, that every time we talk he masturbates. I was in shock because we never talk about anything that you could consider to be any kind of turn on. I like this person as a friend only. I am just not sure this is normal, I am very uncomfortable and a little nervous, although I dont think he would ever hurt me. I am not sure if I should end the friendship. (I am female)

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Something to worry about.

I used to have a guy that would call me just to masturbate to the sound of my voice. It grossed me out and made me feel really uncomfortable. I let him know how I felt but he did not get it. Finally, I just stopped answering his calls and would only speak to him in person if I were to run into him.

A puzzle

This is a mystery and you won't solve it until you tackle your new friend about it. So far all you have is hearsay! Ask him if what friend number 2 says is true, then take it from there.