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Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 25/04/2005 - 08:34. Sex Problems for Men

Me and my girlfriend have attempted sex for the first time on several occasions. However evrytime we have encountered problems. The main problem is that when we attempt to put the condom on i lose stimulation and i am not erected. due to my frustration i then find it iincreasingly diifucult to achieve a full erection at that time. We put it down to first time nerves but i am unsure as to how to overcome this issue. Also the one time we did manage to place the condom on, i went to enter the vagina and came before entry. Again this was frustrating. I am scared that if things dont improve i might lose my girlfriend because i cant fullfill her sexual needs. What can i do?

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PRACTICE OF MASTuRBATION

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 02/05/2005 - 08:13.

IAM A BOY OF LESS THAN 18 IAM PRACTISISING MASTERBATION OFTEN .BY PRACTISING IT IAM VEXEDTHAT ICOULDNT ENJOY LIKE OTHERS .I FEAR THAT PRATICING IT IMAY NOT CONSOLE MY WIFE IN FUTURE IS IT POSSIBLE WAY TO HAVE A BABY PLEASE REPLY

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Masturbation will not affect

Submitted by mpramage on Mon, 02/05/2005 - 21:29.

Masturbation will not affect your ability to have a baby

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Same problem

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 01/05/2005 - 16:31.

Hi,
The very same thing seems to be the case with my boyfriend. He is really hot and everything and he seems to like me as he gets erections all the time but he cannot use a condom. Like, he will be erected and then wear the condom and go soft immediately. He says he loses stimulation, and apparently the visual thing, i.e looking at me and stuff doesnt help as he says that with a condom he can't feel anything. Well what we did, was , we went to the doctor so made sure none of has a STD and are getting started without a condom till half way through, more or less and when he feels that he is close to having an orgasm he wears the condom and it is going better every time. From the beginning I thought that it was a psychological thing, me being a stranger in way he had to perform to and all, but now that we are comfortable things are way better.
What do you think about it?

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Be careful

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 05/05/2005 - 22:08.

Just remember that even though you are putting on a condom before he orgasms, there is sperm in his "precum." So, even though he doesnt orgasm without a condom, you can still get pregnant, and very easily. Make sure you are using other forms of birth control, like the pill, if you are going to continue this method of sex.

otherwise, good luck!

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