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I can't Climax during Oral sex

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 18/04/2005 - 10:45. Sex Problems for Men

I'm 19 years old and Ive been with my current girlfriend for almost a year. Although i can climax easily during masturbation and intercourse Ive never climaxed during Oral sex. I've tried to show my girlfriend what i like and even though it feels great i still have the same problem.
My girlfriends tried absolutely everything to help me, and we go on for a reasonable amount of time too. I do late night shifts so oral sex is a great relaxing way of satisfying eachother without wearing eachother out. This is really starting to affect not just me, but my girlfriends confidence too. I would be so grateful to hear a reply. Thanks

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can't climax during oral sex

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 06/05/2005 - 07:27.

For some men, there is just not enough stimulation with oral sex as with other forms of stimulation. Perhaps your gf could try her hand around the base of your penis at the same time she is giving you oral stimulation, so you are getting both at the same time. If she's never done this, it will be something new for you both to try. You will get the extra pressure you need.

Be patient with yourself. Sometimes being fearful and worrying about the outcome can be enough to create a vicious cycle. You worry about failure, try again and fail. Again you try and worry that you will fail again. It becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.

Let go of the outcome, relax and enjoy what your doing. Pay attention to how you feel in the moment, and let go of setting a goal that you will have an orgasm. Once you take the pressure off of yourself and her, everything else will take care of itself.

Your problems are due to anxiety you've created for yourself because you worry about the outcome. Let it go and just have a good time. Good Luck.

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i cant climax from getting head either!!

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 28/04/2005 - 23:13.

Man i feel as if im the only guy in the world and it really bothers me to know that every boyfriend my gf has had was able to climax. man im so depresed that i cant climax that im thinkin of askin my girlfriend to peirce her toung just for me. if u have any helpful hints now they would be deeply apreciated..

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hi, im no expert but a few

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 06/05/2005 - 14:08.

hi,
im no expert but a few things she could try to do during oral that work for me are when she is giving you oral to press your penis up against the roof of her mouth with her tongue this gives added friction,also if she could try pressing the tip of her tongue against the back of her bottom teeth and tenses her tongue slightly this gives a firmer grip on your penis as it goes in and out of her mouth.Ask her if she could move her head while doing it side to side , front to back (picture the movement a cat makes when licking milk) this can give different sensations and stop it becoming routine.
Ask her to put an ice cube in her mouth the hot and cold contrast is very nice.

None of that may help but at least you might have fun trying.

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