My husband has lost his sexual desire
My husband and I have been married for 1 1/2 years. We have known each other for almost 4 years.
Prior to our marriage we had a healthy sex life. But soon after we were married, his interest in sex diminished, to where now he tells me he has no interest in sex at all. Not just with me, but he is not even interested at looking at women at all. My husband just turned 50 and he blames his lack of interest on his age. I am 44.
I have tried everything to peak his interest - sexy outfits, romantic settings, thoughtful gifts, but nothing. I am constantly rejected - and he becomes angry with me if I try to initiate sex and accuses me of not understanding his physical changes at age 50.
My opinion - no one changes physically that much so quickly and desire is not all physical. And of course I wonder constantly if it is me.
What do I do? He will not go for counseling. I do believe that he may be suffering from some level of depression but again he does not want help.