lack of pleasure

Sex Problems for Women

I've been having sex for only about 3 months, but I have never had an orgasm whether it be during intercourse or oral sex. I don't seem to get a lot of stimulation from my clitoris. I'm worried that I'll never be able to orgasm. What can I do to become more stimulated during sex?

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Early Days for Orgasm

If you go to Orgasm Difficulties or Anorgasmia you can learn more about this. it is very common, many women do not have orgasms with intercourse at all. You can learn to stimulate you clitoris better with practice.

orgasm

As a woman who has masturbated thousands of times I can recommend only to learn to diddle yourself. It is in vain to expect a good climax by mere sex alone. You alone know yourself best and are able to control the sensations. A good vibrator can be very helpful. Take your time and practice ALONE first. The result will make your relationship better.