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Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 13/04/2005 - 15:29. Sex Problems for Women

I'm a 22 year old virgin, I have tried to have sex a few times with previous boyfriends but when they have tried to enter me it hurts so much I can't comtinue. I've recently started dating this lovely guy, I'm worried the same will happen again. I'm scared to tell him im a virgin and scared of having sex with him
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Scared to have sex

Submitted by mpramage on Wed, 13/04/2005 - 19:42.

You may have Vaginismus and therefore sex is painful and impossible until you sort it out. It can be fixed but not overnight. You need help from a therapist who knows this problem.
You are going to have to tell your lovely guy the truth as soon as sex hits the agenda, so set about getting helo as soon as you can. There is no point pretending you can do it until you know it will be ok, as you will be frightened and tense up. You know that really!

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