Hi I am 18years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 18months i am very much in love with him and have been trying to have sex for the last 12 months. I am totally relaxed but i cant let him inside of me it is making us both unhappy especially me as i am the cause. Is it possible I have vaginisms and how can I cure it. Do i need to masturbate I cant even use tampons at times it is very depresing will i ever be able to have sex?