Sex and Pregnancy

Sex Problems for Women

I am 6 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and I used to have sex every other day. But now he doesn't try anymore? I never have initiated sex, during our whole relationship... so now that I want it I dont want to push it on or try to initiate. I feel like that fact that I'm pregnant is unattractive for him. I have never been the person to talk about sex or what not, so I don't want to ask him why he won't sleep with me anymore. I don't know what to do. He would never expect me to even be thinking like this... please help.

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Sex and Pregnancy

Some men have a huge problem with sex and pregnancy. They imagine in their minds that there is "someone in there", or fear that they will do damage by having sex. Obviously I can't say what your partner's issue is, but you really need to talk to him. I am sure he doesn't feel great about it either!

man in trouble

in short, my drive for sex during pregnancy is gone. I don't know if it is the way the vagina feels, the thought of not hurting the baby but it just being there or what it is, but it's upsetting my wife.
Is there an answer or a solution to what I can do to

He is probably just scared of

He is probably just scared of hurting you or the baby. Try and talk to him about it, maybe take him to the doctor or midwife when you go, so they can tell him that sex is OK during pregnancy, as long as you are not bleeding, dont have a history of miscarriages, etc.