Hi, Thank you for taking the time to read this, as this issue I am about to discuss is really bothering me at the moment and I am not quite sure how to deal with it. If anyone, and I mean ANYONE has any advice, comments, questions, or anything else to say about this, please write me [MAIL ADDRESS DELETED, PLEASE READ THE SUBMISSIONS RULES!]

Ok To get down to the problem:

ME = (Im 26 years old, with a recent break up of 4 year relationship)

HIM= New boyfriend(21years old)

ME+HIM= NO ORGASM (NEVER HAD A PROBLEM BEFORE)

My ex boyfriend had a terrible problem being addicted to porn and in the midst of that made me VERY insecure, feelings of inadequacy,and I was thinking that that had something to do with it. To move on, My ex could never last more than 5 minnutes penetrating me without having an orgasm, so we found that for the past 3 years that either he would finger me or eat me out, get me as close to orgasm as possible, and then penetrate me and we both orgasm at the same time.
WELL with my new boyfriend, he doesnt like foreplay as much as my ex, so I find it hard to go from NOTHING or just him rubbing my clit, to penetration and him cumming, but I cant.
Yes there have been times in which he has lasted well over an hour, and I can reach and rub my own clit, but still having a BIG problem reaching orgasm, I have not been able to have an orgasm ONCE with him, and I Think he is starting to notice because I want to do different positions to see what feels the best to concentrate and reach orgasm, and there have been times where I am REALLY close, but still it seems when that happens, and I do get close, he wll cum and then thats it, and I most of the time unless I masturbate by rubbing my clit MYSELF I cannot reach an orgasm because my mind is already done, but my body isnt. ITs weird, I dont know how to explain it. But another issue is that I have something called hidratenitis, which is a disease of the sweat glands, which causes large sores to pop up in areas of the body in which would sweat the most, I have not allowed him to see these areas in the light in fear that he will think I have some kind of STD, and mind you what I have is NOT contagious AT ALL, it shows up in my armpits, my groin, and my butt cheek areas, I am a very attractive woman. and very good in bed, in many different ways, but at the same time what do I do about this, considering there is no cure for it, unless I have all of my sweat glands removed which is unrealistic for me, it will never happen, so these sores are there all of the time, and I was diagnosed with this disese when I was 13 years old, PRIOR TO ANY SEXUAL INVOLVEMENT AT ALL EVER. I AM SCARED OF LOSING HIM, OR HIM TELLING HIS FRIENDS ABOUT IT, LIKE I HAVE THE PLAGUE OR SOMETHING. DOES ANY ONE HAVE ANY ADVICE AT ALL???? THANK YOU AGAIN FOR READING THIS.

SINCERELY,

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