20 years old and wondering about tubal ligation
hello i am a 20 year old female and i am considering getting my tubes tied. i know this sounds horrible, but the only reason is because i am scared about what might happen to my sex life after having a baby. i read everywhere that you don't want to have sex after a baby and even then it doesn't feel as good. i don't know if this would happen to me... i had a burst ovarian cyst once and i was internally bleeding for almost 24 hours and had to have surgery, and even though sex caused the cyst to burst within two days of my surgery i was having oral and a week after i could have penetrative sex. i really would like to have a baby someday but i don't want to have a loose vagina and no sex drive or pleasure... is there any hope for a good sex life after a baby or should i get my tubes tied? i don't know if it makes a difference to a woman's sexual desire how sexy she feels, but im sure during and after pregnancy i would feel sexy because my partner finds pregnancy and after that extremely sexy. anyone have sex after childbirth? is it really that horrible? how the heck do people have like 7 kids then?