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Loss of erection during intercourse

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 25/03/2005 - 20:41. Sex Problems for Men

Hi. My boyfriend(21 y.o) and I(25 y.o)have been having sex for 5 months now and recently we found out that sometimes his erection is lost during intercourse, sometimes he can get it back if we keep stimulating him, other times he can't. We were wondering if this is normal and what could be the causes for it. We are a bit concerned about this issue.

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Erection issues during sex

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 03/05/2005 - 00:49.

I am 21 and my boyfriend is 25, he has problems getting an erection during intercourse and any type of sexual contact between us. He does not have this problem when he masturbates or watches porno... it seems to be just with me... I know I am attractive because I am told so by people all the time... but I FEEL DISGUSTING... why I am the only thing that cannot get my man hard??? If watching porn or masturbating he can achieve an erection, but together we cannot.. please help...

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Also loose erection

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sat, 16/04/2005 - 11:58.

I also sometimes loose my erection. I am only 56 so it is quite frustrating. I have found that if my wife and i go 69 for a while, this helps prolong my erection. We are only able to have sex 3 times a week since i travel so i need to be able to stay hard to take care of her. She has a very strong sex drive and needs a lot more than i can give her.

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Loss of Erection

Submitted by mpramage on Fri, 25/03/2005 - 22:28.

Sometimes this can happen if a man gets distracted by an interruption such as a thought, or a sound, or some other thing. I wouldn't worry, as that will make it worse!! Also, not taking too long over intercourse might help, as the vagina does not always give enough stimulation for the erection to continue.

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loss of erection

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 27/03/2005 - 17:17.

As embarrassing as it is. I, too seem to have this problem. When my wife and I make love, I sometimes lose me erection and I dont know what causes it. Seems like a catch 22 I either lose my erection or I ejaculate too fast. I am perfectly happy with my wife and she always turns me on. I never have a problem getting an erection. It just seems that mid-intercourse I will lose it. Is there any advice on this that you can give?

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loss of erection

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Mon, 02/05/2005 - 01:16.

i too hav had this problem, wot i did was watch a porno and remember in my head the part that turned me on the most, and when i was havin sex i would just think of that part in my head. other than that u could take viagra or even try uprima, both are available from your gp, the cause of loss of erection could even be 'mind over matter' when your always thinkin in ur head 'will it stay up' will actually make it go down, you could try another foreplay technique, a males g spot is up his bum, if your girlfriend stimulates this by rimming your hole with her finger will actaully turn u on real bad and this will make u sustain a good erection, i have tried all of the above and seem to of had wotked with me.

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