My Girlfriend and I have just reached the line, and have had sex several times now, and its been as expected for the first time. Incomplete, unsatisfying, but i know that it will get better over time. My girlfriend likes to recieve pleasure oraly, and other methods, but when it comes to me, she is even afraid of touching me in any shape or form. I ask her if anything is wrong, and asks why she is afraid, and she says she doesnt know, or she just wont tell me. I tried to talk to her about it, and I just cant get any answers. I know she got abused by her previous boyfriend, just not to what extent. She said she is over it, but im still coming to the conclusion she is still shaken. I cant see why foreplay is an issue, but intercourse is not a problem. I love her very much, and want to get over this so we can both be as happy as possible, im putting myself to the side for now until we can get this resolved. please help