I can only orgasm with vibrator --- help!

Sex Problems for Women

I have read all the other "I cant have an orgasm" stories, but none seem to be like my situation. I can have an orgasm (it can still take a while though) if I use a vibrator, but sex alone does not do it for me. My husband has only been able to make me come twice with oral sex. I know its not that Im uncomfortable, or pushing myself too hard, or dont know my body, or all the other advice I have read. My husband seems to think that my clitoris doesnt get as much stimulation because its "covered" more than other girls'. Can this be the reason? Is there anything I can do about it?

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Orgasm with Vibrator

About 10% of women do not orgasm at all under any circumstances. You are able to orgasm with a vibrator, if you take your time, and on two occasions with oral sex. It seems there is nothing wrong, your clitoris works just fine. This is how it is for you at this time. It may change, because a woman's body and sexual responses can sometimes change as she matures, but it is wisest to enjoy what works, rather than worry about what may never happen.