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Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 19/03/2005 - 23:54. Sex Problems for Women

Hi.

I have always been shy around my partners when it came to sex because I am uncomfortable with my appearance. I have met this wonderful guy (possibly THE one) and sex is an important part of a relationship for him, as well for me. One problem with this is that I am larger than he is and It makes me feel uncomfortable because I am paranoid that Im going to hurt him, or not be able to do the things that he wants to do. I also am uncomfortable because I have scars on my stomach from a childhood surgery. He says that it does not bother him, but for for some reason I can not get past it. I want to be able to do things with him and enjoy them. I dont want him to get tired of doing the same things over and over, but Im afriad that he will want to try something that I wont be able to do. Maybe someone will have some suggestions. It would be greatly appreciated!

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worried

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Tue, 31/05/2005 - 16:33.

you dont have to worry about that i have been married for 12 yrs and with my husband for 18 yrs i am larger than him and we have had sex in many posiitons and the only thing that he does is smile dont be so worried about scars its what is on the inside not the outside , try rear entry ( not anal sex) that might be better for you try being on top facing his feet so you have a better control of your weight distribution so you dont feel like you are crushing him ( which i doubt you are doing) the most important thing is to try new things and go with makes you comfortable. but never stop trying or youll never find whats best for you

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men love the curves - trust m

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Thu, 16/06/2005 - 03:17.

men love the curves - trust me! he is more interested in your breasts and what you have between your legs, rather than what dress size you are or are not. If he wanted a stick thin woman, he would go and get a stick thin woman. Embrace your curves - they are VERY sexy!!!

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worried also

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 18/05/2005 - 23:34.

Hello,
I had this problem too. I was always really uncomfortable wtih my body and I never wanted him to see me naked. He would always say to me that there was nothing wrong with my body and he loved it. So one day I let him see me and everything has been fine since then. Try it maybe it will work for you too

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im going through the same thi

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 18/05/2005 - 23:13.

I'm going through the same thing right now. We have a really open relationship and I told him about my problem and he says its ridiculous and it doesn't bother him at all but I'm still uncomfortable with it.

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