I have been with my current partner for 8 years. We have always had problems with having sex. It is very tight and painful. After 6 years I went to a sexual health clinic and vaginismus was ruled out. They sent me to a sexual psychologist who said she didn't see any hang ups or 'issues' and I had a health attitude to sex. Therefore thay have ended the treatment with the fact that he is on the large side and I am a petite female and that will always be the case? Please can someone tell me there is another soloution!!!!