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I cant come!!

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 09/03/2005 - 10:09. Sex Problems for Women

Im 17 have only had two sexual parteners. The problem is however much they turn me on, they cant make me come. I have never orgasmed and I'm dying too. They both tried everything, oral, sex, externally and it just wont happen. One of them mentioned that I got a red rash on my chest and he could feel my legs shaking a bit. But I never feel as if im gona blow and i dont know what im looking for!!
I also have reoccurence of thrush freqently and if I have lots of sex, I often get dry, sore and sex become painful. Ive had a swab test recently and they came back negative- apart from thrush.
I feel like there's something wrong down there and I cant make myself come either! Please help!!!

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Pre-orgasmia

Submitted by mpramage on Wed, 09/03/2005 - 20:11.

You have not come yet most likely because your body is not ready. You are trying too hard and making yourself sore and upset in the process. Many women don't come until late in theis twenties, and that is normal. Enjoy the pleasure you can feel easily and relax.

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But....

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Fri, 11/03/2005 - 15:46.

My boyfriend tries so hard to make me come and I feel awful- I really want to but if I'm pushing the matter, it won't happen. You're right. Do you think I should fake it? Can you suggest tips that might make it happen! thanksxx

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P.s.

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 18/05/2005 - 23:43.

Dont fake it that is the worst thing in the world cause he will be so happy and then you will feel guilty for faking it

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hey

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 18/05/2005 - 23:42.

I just turned 18 and I've been with my boyfriend a long time and it doesn't happen very often. Oral is the best suggestion. I offered him oral till he came to oral till I came. It took him a long time and his tongue was a little sore but he said it was worth it. I also find it easier to do when I really concentrate on it and really want it. Like running a race I have to beat him there. But some people that try to hard cant do it they just have to let it happen. Try them both. Also try on top me and my friends think that is the easiest way to do it.

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