Can't Ejaculate inside her
I have never been able to ejaculate inside any girlfriend, even after marriage but I can from masturbation. I get all aroused before hand and penetrative sex is wonderful but I never come. I am divorced now (not because of my sex problem) from a wife who never loved me and we had very little sex and then I would have to do 'all' the work. I used to have to masturbate a lot by myself but now I am desperate to ejaculate inside my girlfriend. Sometimes when I am with her I can't even ejaculate by masturbation. I love my girlfriend and we can do everything - she is very orgasmic and willing to stimulate me in any way to help. She needs to be touching me in a certain way before I ejaculate (Is this 'approval'?). I used to be able masturbate next to my partner and then quickly insert my Penis to complete but I don't seem able to do that now.
Any advice please?