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Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 26/02/2005 - 15:40. General

My boyfriend and I seem to have a good sex life. He is very pleased with the things I do. But he just can't ejacualte. We have had sex about 20 times and he has only finished twice. Is it me? Could it be we aren't living in a comfortable situation? We do not have our own apartment. We will have it in about 3 weeks. But maybe its because we are nervous of getting caught. I'm not sure. He can ejacualte with masturbation but not with intercourse or oral pleasure. He was thinking of going to get checked. I think that it is a good idea. But any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thank you

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Situational - Retarded Ejaculation

Submitted by mpramage on Sat, 26/02/2005 - 22:37.

He has situational retarded ejaculaion and if you go to [Sex Problems for Men] on this site you will see how common it is, and that people have a lot of different ideas about it.
It is not you, but something about him. Some men have a high orgasm threshold and need more stimulation than the vagina can give. Some men have an inhibition about coming in front of another person. Some men need their fantasies rather than an emotionally intimate reality. I do not know what it is for your partner, but it's best not to get too het up about it. The more you try, the further it slips away!
It is not a physical problem, but one that you may have to adjust to, or he may overcome it in time.

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