My boyfriend has told me that before we met he used to masterbate over the internet. which i not very pleased about.i was shocked when he told me.i thought he was shy but when in conversation,he says the women never see his face so was easy to do.he watch them do it too, which excited him and just laughs it off,

As he likes dressing up in s/s/ high heels, which i dont like, last night he ask me not to come up to bed for little while so he could watch a blue film dress up masterbate..he did ask me to join in but he also no's i dont like it.although he says he loves me its making me feel like i am not good enough for him.when i ask him to please stop doing it he says he can not as he likes it.and there is nothing wrong in his eyes,he says its me with the problem.
i do go to see my children and stay for anything up to a week,he ask me when am i going when am i back.so he nos how many days hes got on his own...
Apart from all this we are very happy. just his sexual habits i do not like.i really dont want to stop the relationship as i do love him. or do i let him carry on doing his things and turn a blind eye.and hope he stops.