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Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 23/02/2005 - 09:26. Sex Problems for Women

Im 35 and he is 55, im starting to become very frustrated, when i try to bring my friend in the mood for making love, then he doesnt react totally he just let it come over him and doesnt makes a move back to me. When i try to kiss him then he barely kisses back. When i ask him if he is not in the mood then he says that he was enjoying what i was doing but he is not giving me any feeling that he wants to share the enjoying part. It is very difficult for me to try again because it feels like a rejection. and it hurts. I know im not size 12 and probably not so sexy as i would like, but saying that he loves me and takes me the way i am and then let my feelings down that isnt fair.
I would like to know how i can deal with this, i dont wanna lose him but my feelings start to become so hurt that i dont know what to do anymore.
I have the idea that he is afraid not to be able to satisfy my needs. I tell him every time that i love him want him and that he can satisfy my needs and that the size of his penis isnt important for me but his heart and he's affection is.
Can you help me please how can i reach him without losing more.

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Little energy for sex

Submitted by mpramage on Wed, 23/02/2005 - 19:49.

He seems to have little energy and to be quite content to leave all the effort to you. Does he realise how hurtful this feels and how selfish it seems? There are probably reasons behind it, fear of losing his erection, not coming or coming too soon, or getting old perhaps. Whatever the reason, your needs are not being met and you are beginning to get fed up. He needs to understand this and take a bit more responsibility, but you can't make him change, unfortunately.

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I am also a mid-thirties woma

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 01/05/2005 - 12:45.

I am also a mid-thirties woman who is dating a mid-fifties guy. He has a stressful job plus is dealing with an e-wife who still haunts him. Some times he just can't stay hard and it is very frustrating. However, most of the time he has no problems. In fact, i have to say he is a far better lover than all the younger men i have experienced. He is an absolute expert at using his fingers- makes me cum 3 or 4 times before he ever attempts intercourse. He is fairly well endowded including rather large testicles which produce an incredible load. Once he slips between my thighs, he is as good as any 18 year old. I have a friend who recently divorced and after a few months was climbing the walls and needed some sexual attention. I arranged for him to take care of her and she told me he made her cum 7 times he first time he made love to her. Her ex husband had been small- 5 inches she said and my BF is something close to 9. She had never seen a man with testicles so big and who could shoot his load 3 feet into the air. So work with your 55 year old. From talking to a lot of my thirish friends, they find most 55 to 60 year old men still very capable and most seem to appreaciate making it with a younger woman. My guy tells me that having sex with me during mu period makes him feel young and virle.

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