How to find out if a girl is a virgin or not

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OK I BEEN GOIN OUT WIT MY GIRLFRIEND FOR A COUPLE OF MONTHS NOW AND WE BROKE UP OVER THE SUMMER AND RECENTLY GOT BACK TOGETHER WE HAD PROBLEMS WITH TRUST AOR ME TRUSTING HER SHE SAY SHE FAITHFL BUT FROM HER PAST ANS THE WAY HER FRIENDS ARE I CANT BELIEVE IT I WANNA BELIEVE FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART I DO BUT ITS SOMETHING HOLDING ME BACK FORM DOIN THAT AND SHE SAY SHE A VIRGIN BUT I DONT REALLY BELIEVE IT FORM THE WAY SHE TALKS ABOUT SEX LIKE SHES EXPERIENCED AND I JUST WANNA KNOW HOW CAN I FIND OUT IF MY GIRL FRIEND IS PHYSICALLY AND REALLY A VIRGIN LIKE MY FRIENDS SAY THAT YOU CAN TELL IF THERES LOOSENESS IN THE VAGINA BUT I DUNNO CASUE HER FRIENDS ARE WHAT YOU CAN CALL VERY SEXUALLY ACTIVE AND HER SHE SAY SHES NOT BUT I THINK SHE IS WE HAVNT HAD SEX YET BUT I BELIEVE SHES OUT THERE HAVIN SEX WITH OTHER BOYS THEN COME BACK TO ME AND ACT LIKE SHES A GOOD GIRL BUT IM NOT UP TO REALLY GETTIN HURT AGAIN CAUSE I DONT THINK I CAN HANDLE ANOTHER HEARTBREAK CAUSE I REALLY LOVE THIS GIRL TO DEATH BUT I CANT TRUST HER AND I JUST NEED ANSWERS AND HOPEFULT SOMEONE CAN TRY AND HELP ME FIND ATLEASE SOME ANSWERS

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virgin or not

i really want to find out if my girlfriend is virgin or not ..she says she is ..when i put my finger in her se didnt make any sound at all so i started wondering ..it does matter to me cus i am virgin myself ..n e way i came across this just now thought u guys may be interested

"Torn hymen (Virgin or not?) www.Studenthealth.co.uk

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The hymen is a piece of tissue that lies across the entrance to the vagina. It does not obstruct the entrance to the vagina but may be torn during sexual intercourse, thus producing the bleeding which for many years was seen as evidence of virginity.

The prominence and elasticity of the hymen varies and by no means do all women bleed after their first sexual intercourse. The hymen may well have been stretched or broken previously by exercise, tampon usage or by injuries such as the straddling of a bike saddle.

An article in the BMJ states

In our experience of examining more than 1000 adolescents who had experienced vaginal penetration the most common appearance of the hymen was of indeterminate disruption to the free edge.

So called rupture and bleeding of the hymen is not to be routinely expected after first sexual intercourse. (BMJ 1999;318:605 )

Another study showed that 19% of the sexually active postpubertal females had no visible abnormalities of the hymen. BMJ 1998;317:414

Losing your virginity occurs when you first have sex and has nothing to do with broken hymens, which may have happened prior to you first having sex. The lack of bleeding after first intercourse should not be taken as evidence of non-virginity. However some cultures see this as so important that women undergo operations prior to their marriage that will ensure that they bleed on the night of their wedding*

If you do get pain and bleeding, use a pad/panty liner and take some painkillers. Sex will get better as you get more experienced, some women bleed the first few times they have sex. Remember not to attempt penetration until you are aroused and make sure that you and your partner use plenty of lubrication (KY Jelly or similar products are easily available from chemists or try blushing buyer if you can’t face the chemist)

Fingerd my Girl friend

ok i have a friend that told me that he finger his girl friend and that he put his finger deep in side of her vagina an she did not made a sound i just want to know if u finger ur girl friend and that she dont make no sound is she a virgin or not also i want to noe is it true that if a girl have's a gap between their leg and say that their a virgin is that true ??

LISTEN UP

READ ALL THE POSTS ABOVE.

YOU CAN'T TELL IF SHE'S A VIRGIN!

END OF STORY.

This is going to be the last post on this thread because we are tired of saying the same thing all the time.

Virgin or not

You can only decide to believe what she says, or not. There is no way to tell if she's a virgin or not.

how can you tell when a girl is a virgin or not?

but dont they say that girls bleed when they have sex for the first time????...Some chicks say that hey go through a lot of pain. And they guys say that the girls bleed is it true???

Many people believe that blee

Many people believe that bleeding after intercourse is a sign of virginity because it proves that the hymen ‑- a thin, fleshy membrane that partially covers the vaginal opening ‑- "broke." But not all women bleed the first time they have sex. Not only can hymen tissue simply stretch during penetration, rather than tear and bleed, but it is also very common for the hymen to rip before a woman ever has sex. Physical exercise, like riding a bike or doing gymnastics, injury to the genital area, or inserting a tampon, finger or sex toy into the vagina can all cause the hymen to split. Sometimes there will be discomfort and blood when the hymen tears, or there may be no blood or pain at all. In fact, you may not even know when your hymen breaks.
On the other hand, post-sex bleeding can occur for a variety of reasons besides a broken hymen, such as different types of infections, polyps of the cervix or abnormal cervical cells, and a tear in the vagina from vigorous sex without enough lubrication.

So, while a man might assume that a woman who bleeds after sex is a virgin, the only way for him to know for sure is if she tells him.

So guys, I assume that all of

So guys, I assume that the reason that all of you are really interested in if a girl is a virgin is because you are really keen on white weddings?

Hmmm, I thought not. So, please explain.

First Time

Some girls do bleed on the first time, but not many. The hymen which causes the bleeding usually dissolves away before the girl is old enough for sex. Some girls have pain the first time and others don't.