he doesn't get totally hard, comes quick

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I recently started seeing a guy I'm very much attracted to, and he to me. We've become close in the time we've spent together. He's shared some things he says few people know about, or hasn't said to anyone. Some of these things are that he's a virgin, that he tends to come quickly, and usually he doesn't get completely hard when erect. I've seen and felt his penis when he's hard and he's rather thick in girth. I'd say 5.5-6" around, possibly 7" long as well. When he's hard his shaft stays kind of "spongy". Mine gets VERY hard at 7x5", even ribbed. Is there anything I can do to help him, and he help himself with this?

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It seems this guy is less exp

It seems this guy is less experienced than you are, and may be a bit anxious. It is important not to get too hung up on size and hardness, as these can vary so much from one man to another. Of course anxiety may affect hardness too.
As far as coming too quickly goes, that also may be partly due to anxiety. There is more information about this of you go to "Ejaculation Problems". on the main web site.