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Masturbation vs Orals vs Penetration

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 23/01/2005 - 15:39. Sex Problems for Men

Hi. I am a 20 yr old guy and here is what I feel uncomfortable about. I masturbate regularly for 2 reaons, 1)to last longer during my sexual episode, 2) Just as a prevention as I have heavy ejaculations.
The problem is here. If I masturbate twice in a day, the second time takes ages but still when I am with my partner with hand jobs and stuff I am ok but when I feel my penis lubricated within lips or while penetrating, I just get excited and still ejaculate very quickly. Ending the whole session. Are there any tips what I can do..Thanks beforehand

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What i used to do

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Sun, 08/05/2005 - 00:46.

What i used to do is concentrate very hard on something that isnt sex.

You can continue thrusting because thats like an instinctive thing, but make sure you arent concentrating when you feel the excitedness come up.

One thing to be weary of is losing your erection, you have to find a balance. If you feel you're softening then look at what you're doing.

I havent found a way that works with oral sex yet, as that, for me, is too.. on-turning..

I haven't had sex for 6 months now and 'should' be starting again soon, so no doubt i'll be back to this page looking for answers.

It happens to the best of us - dont fret (not that i'm the best of us but you understand what i mean right?)

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Over excitement

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/02/2005 - 07:06.

Enjoy it buddy. You're young and it feels great. So come quick in those situations if that's what has to happen, but there is no reason to stop then. Do stuff with her and for her, and you'll soon be ready to go again. And if she has the slightest bit of common sense, she'll be able to see that this is a way of prolonging the activity, not cutting it short.
Go again! Go again! Really - it's not a bad thing.

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Premature Ejaculation

Submitted by mpramage on Sun, 23/01/2005 - 16:58.

You have a form of Premature Ejaculation, which is caused by overanxiety and overexcitement, just as you say. Go to "Premature Ejaculation" and find out more. The site is being reworked at present, so if that link doesn't work, go to the main site from the link on the home page of this forum, and find Premature Ejaculation under 'Sex', then 'Sex Problems for Men'.

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