am i peeing or is this a female ejaculation?!?!

Sex Problems for Women

help! my husband no longer wants to to have oral sex with me (which i sooo enjoy) because more than once i have "gushing orgasms". he says its pee, and unfortunately having this "gushing" is the only way i feel totally released when having an orgasm. i have read up on female ejaculation and would really like to know what my body is releasing...is there a test to see if the fluid is urine or my semen?

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Gushing

This 'gushing' is perfectly normal. Although i must admit when i first experienced it I asked someone. I feel the same way about the orgasm being much more fulfilling if i do 'gush'. Dont worry x

Female ejaculation

Obviously I don't know for sure, but usually this is not urine, but a fluid produced within the vagina and called female ejaculation. If you save any of it on a tissue, does it look or smell like urine?

just to show you how differen

just to show you how different we all are: my wife only had it happen a few times and she's still very self-conscious about it; we talk openly about it and she knows that I do not mind at all. I love giving cunilingus - preferably with her 'sitting on my face'; but that's where I think she has the 'problem' - she worries about me "drowning". Obviously it's not a problem for me, and I believe this ejaculation simply intensifies her experience. I therefore would love for her to have more of these "gushers" and we're working on it.
I should add, although I suppose it's understood, we both practice excellent hygiene.

tut tut! type in female

tut tut! type in female ejaculation on the net and show him that its perfectly natural, not pee!!!!! its the female equivalent of his stuff, and many would love it!