There are some medical illnesses like high blood pressure, diabetes, depression, where a sexual problem can be the first sign of anything wrong. Some sexual problems can be caused by medical treatments, so it is often a good idea to check with your doctor if you are to take any drugs. You will want to know how long the effect may last.

Common causes of sexual problems which are not medical are:

1. not knowing how to respond or what is expected of you
2. not enough time to relax and enjoy it
3. difficulties in the relationship
4. too much stress and pressure in life generally
5. unwilling partner or partner who does not like sex
6. being uncertain of some facts, especially about the effects of aging.

Most often, a sexual problem is a mixture of medical and other causes. If in any doubt, consult your doctor to rule out illness or medical treatments as a cause. Most problems can be helped.

Here is a list of common sexual problems for men.