cheating boyfriend

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I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years everything going great until recently when I've seen things left behind at his house of another woman.
I can't stomach his lies and feel as though he is really playing me and I want to confront this lady and ask what is going on (mind you she is married but going thru a divorce)
He first had issues with committment and now this cheating?
What can I do to deal with this,
I really do love him and I want to work it out and I know that he loves me but will he let go of this woman?
Can anyone help out with suggestions.
Thanks,
still hopeful

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You will have to be smart

Well, first of all i am sorry. Like you have said he is been playing you. Now its your turn. Dont get me wrong, You will have to keep some distance with him and try to make him feel jealous. Let him feel lonely, let him miss you, let him come to know your importance in his life, like you have said he loves you, he will not leave you, but you have to keep some patience. Believe me if you forgive him now so easily, who knows he might repeat the same mistake may be after marriage. Dont worry everything will be allright. God Bless you.

Not much to go on

Frankly I wouldn't hold out much hope. I understand that you love him, but fidelity is not his strong point, is it? You may have to move on and get over it.