Some years ago I noticed I was not quite hard when my wife and I were having sex. Ever since then it has been on my mind. I have had blood tests for hormone levels which were ok. I am not the mst confident of people, (even less these days).
My docotor suggested self stimulation, but this makes me feel guilty or strange.
Is trying to get turned on by looking at nude photos of other women normal? when really I should be looking at my wife, (who is very nice) or do I feel less pressuure and have no-one to let down but myself?
I am 38, don't smoke, (not a lot), keep fit and in good shape (still very toned), we eat well. It is starting to do my head in looking for answers. Any advice would be good!