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Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 04/09/2004 - 14:21. Sex Problems for Men

I was wondering about ejaculating for men and what would be an average time a male would take to ejaculate. At home when I masturbate I can come in a quick enough time. However when I am with my partner I can't. Is it that I have grown to accustomed to my own technique that I can't ejaculate or something else.

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Something else

Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on Wed, 02/02/2005 - 07:23.

Presumably you don't do a lot of self stimulation just before sex with your partner.

Think about these possibilities: No 2 people are alike in the way their sexual geography is put together. I've had a couple of partners with whom I can end up banging away for hours without feeling like I'm getting anywhere myself, and others where I have to fight like crazy to control myself. That's physical stuff that you can't possibly find out until you get together with someone. Plenty of women are in that situation It isn't usually thought of as something that affects men, but to some extent it does.

Think back to whether you may have damaged a nerve in the penis, either through aggressive masturbation, or a bit of bad marksmanship with a partner. This might have left you with enough feeling to stimulate yourself, since you know the territory so well, but your partner would need to know precisely how you felt for you to have some chance of coming.

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It seems you have Situational

Submitted by mkarliner on Tue, 07/09/2004 - 07:53.

It seems you have Situational Retarded Ejaculation, if you want a label.

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