What does he want from me?

Relationship Problems

Basically I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, we have been through a lot together and its been pretty tough.
To cut a long story short, my boyfriend has got a lot of issues to deal with, he's in the process of finding a permanent job, we both need to move out of our house as landlady is selling up after 5 years of my boyfriend renting the place, he's got a lot of frustration going on inside him, as well as other things that have put a strain on our relationship.
So all in all he's not really that easy to get on with, so much is going on in our lives he doesn't seem to know what he wants. I was all set to move back to my Mum's in order to save our relationship and make it stronger, but only last week he said he didn't want me to move out as it was too much pressure with everything else going on as well, plus he said we should try and sort things out together and work through this.
Then couple of days later he turns round and says I have got the wrong end of the stick and that he thought it was easier on me not to move out till the house was sold, then the next day he apologises for hurting me & that he wants me to help him through all his stresses.
I just don't know where I am with him, I know he's very scared and vulnerable at the moment, but he knows I am there for him, but he just can't seem to handle and deal with his life, can anyone shed some light or give some advice, also I need some advice on how to deal with this, as I believe he walks all over me as I am too nice to him.

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He doesn't know what he wants

He doesn't know what he wants! You could think carefully about what is best for you in this situation, and focus on your own life and happiness rather than on him.