I am a 19 year old female and I have been sexually active for four years. I have had sexual encounters both in and out of a relationship. I am comfortable masturbating and have been doing so for years, yet i have NEVER orgasmed. Up until recently this never bothered me; I always assumed with more practice it would happen. Recently I have become bothered with my inability to orgasm. I have been told psychological issues may be the source of my problem. I don't think this is the case though. I have always felt very comfortable sexually. I have never felt pressured or regretted any of my sexual encounters. I don't feel guilty or awkward about my sexuality and I am very comfortable with my appearance. I have always been with partners that are kind and understanding. In fact, most people I have been with try really hard to please me, putting my pleasure ahead of there own. I have never had trouble pleasing anyone but myself.

Some people wonder why I even have sex if I cant orgasm. I enjoy sex, really i do. I have plenty of sex. Its fun and it feels good, but something is missing.

I was thought to have suffered from depression and ocd and have been on antidepressents since elementary school. Recently my doctor has figured out I may have been misdiagnosed and changed my diagnosis to ADD (this has been difficult and weird for me) and i have started taking Strattera. I am aware that many of these medicines cause sexual side-effects. Could my inability to orgasm be one of these sexual side-effects? If so, is there a solution? I must note that there was a three month period that I was not medicated and I still could not achieve orgasm. Recently when I try to masturbate it doesn't even feel that good, it feels pretty neutral. I am going to buy a vibrator as soon as i get the chance. I wish I could see a sex therapist but I don't think that's an option for me right now. My parents would not be thrilled.

Please, I really need help