Confused and frustrated, (wedding plans on hold)

Relationship Problems

I have been in a relationship with my fiancee for almost 3 years, and engaged almost 1 year. I have noticed recently that she has not been in the mood for sex, and when she did give it to me, she was just doing it because I wanted it, not because she wanted to do it. I confronted her and she told me the reason was that she was no longer sexually attracted to me. What a blow! I have since called off the wedding plans until we get this situation straight. I do extra things to try to spice things up in the bedroom, but since she told me how she feels, It has really turned me off. I no longer want to even attempt to engage in any sexual activities or forms of intimacy.. The problem is I have an extremely high sex drive, and masterbation is starting to get old.. I dont know what to do....

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Better find out now!

It is better to have this painful information now rather than in 2 years' time when you may have a child and all sorts of other complications.
Feeling as you now both do, is it sensible to go ahead with the lifetime commitment of marriage! I know sex isn't all of a relationship by a very long chalk, and the bonding and the emotional connection are more powerful, but sex definitely matters! If you are not sexually compatible, you really need to consider the next step very carefully