our relationship started out casual

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Relationship Problems

my boyfriend and i are having problems.
the history is we started sleeping together 7 years ago, but only remained friends.
1 year ago we decided to start a "real relationship" (boyfriend/girlfriend)
my boyfriend is having a hard time though.
he says he does not feel romantically about me.
he thinks we need to leave the relationship and approach it possibly in the future from a different position, rather than from the postion of just having a sexual relationship
he says he loves me, can not imagine life with out me, so why is he trying to leave me?
he does not know if he is in love with me or evan what that means
can some one give me some possable insight into what he is thinking?

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Friendship with sex

Might it be that what you had worked as it was and trying to change it was not such a good idea?