GF does not orgasm with intercourse. Was "need advice please help"

Sex Problems for Women

im 24 and my girlfriend is the same age, we both have sexual experience she has alot more then i do she has been with 20 or more people and her last boyfriend was large and im medium to small. and i cant make her orgasim with intercourse, i can eat her out and finger her and she gets off but then she never climax with intercourse, i ask her why and she said "my ex was large to say the least and i think he damaged some of the nerves. we rarely were gentle with each other and when he was hurting me he dint care". is there any advice someone can help me with?

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same problem

I had a similar "problem" as your girlfriend. Alot of the problem was my boyfriend kept making me feel like he had to make up his lack of experiance through me. We would have sex, but I wasn't really into it. I kept feeling like I had to prove that he satisfied me, which only put more stress on me to perform. It put so much stress on me that I couldn't enjoy it at all anymore. Once I talked with my boyfriend about how much pressure I was feeling and how it only disappointment to disappoint him. We agreed to just allow me to come to him when I wanted to because that was half the problem. Once I felt like I didn't have to have sex, I started to want it more often and reach orgasm. Maybe you two should try that. Good luck!!

wow ok

you do have a very good point. when we 1st got together it was fine, but lately she doesnt want to have sex and im horny 24/7 its crazy. but ill try what you said. maybe it would help. but if anyone else have any advice please feel free to post ill take all the help i can get