i've been dating a wonderful guy for a couple years now. when we first met, i immediately assumed that he was gay. many other ppl from our university also made that assumption. i recognize these are all stereotypes, but his mannerisms (limp wrists, walks with a bit of a sway) and voice have keep me concerned about the possibility that he might not be straight. as a kid, he avoided sports and had almost exclusively female friends in high school. his parents questioned his sexuality at one point. we've talked about this a lot and he assures me that he's absolutely straight. he's always interested in sex and seems to enjoy it with me and had girlfriends/hookups with girls before me. but i can't shake the feeling that i shouldn't trust him on this one- as far as i know, he's always been honest with me, but he's very happy in the relationship (as am i, except for this issue) and he knows i wouldn't stay in the relationship if he said he wasn't sure he's straight. we talk about marriage and if it weren't for this problem, i would have absolutely no reservations about marrying him.