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Cant Make my Girlfriend have a Orgasm

Submitted by Man16 on Mon, 22/10/2007 - 03:53. Sex Problems for Men

I can't make my girlfriend have a orgasm. I Feel like I'm not worth nothing and makes me Mad and disappointed in myself. I try everything but nothing seems to work. The only way she has a orgasm is when she does it herself, and thats me feel like I'm not worth anything. Should this make me feel like that? What Should I do or is there any advice can you people help me cause this is making my life stressed out.

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don't feel bad

Submitted by countrygirl on Mon, 29/10/2007 - 18:04.

Guys need to realize that it isn't up to them to make us women orgasm. We are complex creatures, and what works one time, may not work the next, at least thats how it works for me anyway. One thing most men don't realize is that it has alot to do with what they do before they even get to intercourse. From personal experience, alot of it has to do with foreplay. The more you can hold off getiing to the actual intercourse, the more likely she may be to reach orgasm during intercourse. We like to feel like a goddess, we want you to worship us and our bodies. It could start with the simplest thing as a kiss on our neck in the morning before you leave. try touching other parts of her body other than just the ones you like to touch. Caress her hips and thighs, her back and arms. kiss her hips and shoulders. Trust me, the hotter you make her before, the better it will be during. Guys seems to run hot continuously, while we run cool and need to warm up. Get us to our boiling point, and it will be better for you and for her. Just give it a try and see if it helps.

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Not your job!

Submitted by mpramage on Mon, 22/10/2007 - 07:12.

It is not your fault or your failing if she does not have an orgasm. She can do it herself, so there is nothing wrong, but maybe she is put off if somebody else is there. Stop feeling bad about it, s it is not about you. And stop trying to do something you can't do!

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i feel the same

Submitted by pocketrocket on Thu, 25/10/2007 - 16:19.

i have the same problem if you call it a problem. i mean i can make her cum by eating her out or play with her clit. but she never gets a orgasim with intercourse. and i know how you feel i been on this site reading and tryin to see if theres anything i can do but theres really not a lot or any. im not a big buy im about medium to small and it makes me feel even smaller when she doesnt orgasim with intercourse. if theres anything anyone can tell me that would help that would be great.

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hey guys, this is actually

Submitted by heliacalsoth on Mon, 29/10/2007 - 03:16.

hey guys, this is actually really common. I'm a girl and I've never had an orgasm from intercourse (and my boyfriend is around 7.5 inches). I've also heard from my girlfriends that they've never had orgasms during sex, but have had orgasms while doing other things. your girls need to figure out for themselves what makes them orgasm because it's really not your job :P

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Some women can't cum from intercourse

Submitted by Mature Man on Fri, 26/10/2007 - 10:12.

I'm very grateful that that is not a problem here; in fact, she cums fast enough that I sometimes have to "catch up"! However, for some reason, some women can NOT cum from intecourse alone.

I suspect it all depends on stimulation -- what's being rubbed or touched and what's not, how sensitive the clitoral area has gotten, and so on.

Why not try to help her get there by seeing what SHE does to make herself cum and then try reaching down to do the same thing during intercourse? Or encourage her to touch herself, too, while you do it?

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