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I cant even get turned on

Submitted by r00210 on Fri, 19/10/2007 - 22:51. Sex Problems for Women

I am 17 years old and have had 2 boyfriends. The thing is i can't get turned on. Even when i think about fantasies and stuff im not turned on and neither of my boyfriends have turned me on. Ive been sexually active for a year and have always faked being turned on but i dont want to fake haveing an orgasm and i know my first boyfriend was very hurt he couldnt make me cum. Ive suffered from depression in the past and i know this can effect your sexual desire. But now i dont know what to do because i want to be turned on and i dont seem to be able to.

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I can relate

Submitted by countrygirl on Sat, 27/10/2007 - 17:33.

I also suffer with depression and that can really effect your sex drive. Alot of it is self image. If you are like me, you don't see yourself as attractive. I hate to have the lights on when we are being intimate because it makes me too self conscious, I can't relax enough to enjoy it, and it starts to feel like a chore instead of an expression of how close you want to be to that person. I have found that watching porno makes me feel more sexy because if you've ever seen some of those girls, all natural women are way more beautiful. Even if you feel weird about it, it helps you to see how to be sexy and hopefully, you will have a better ability to be sexy yourself. I hope it works out.

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I'm 21 and finally got

Submitted by kittysaysroar on Wed, 19/12/2007 - 05:02.

I'm 21 and finally got turned on for the first time. except there were so many guys around that wanted me I was like a kid in a candy store and had sex with too many guys.... Havn't been horny sense.

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