I am a women, not a man, so I don't understand men and their erections and why some times they get it, don't, and other times only get some what hard. The other night, my boyfriend didn't get a full erection. This has never happened in the four years we have been together and I can't figure out why all of a sudden this happened?? I can sit here all day thinking of maddening answers to this question, but as I said previously, I am not a man. Is it emotional, like he doesn't know if I might be cheating on him or not, or is it that he finds other women hotter then me and just isn't attracted to me as he use to, or.... , the list is endless. I don't want to freak out about this, but at the same time, this has never happened before, I have never had an issue with turning him on in the past or him being turned on. Answers would be so wonderful!!! Please help!!!!